The Ultimate Guide to Milestone Birthdays: What, When and Why You Should Celebrate
Let's start with the numbers you need to know:
Quite simply, these are milestone birthdays for adults.
Another way to remember which birthdays are considered milestones for adults?
The age the person turns will always end in zero…with the exception of the 21st birthday. The origins of 21 being an important age trace back to medieval times. A boy could become a page at age 7, a squire at age 14 and a knight at 21 years of age.
Turning 21 is considered a milestone in the United States because of the privileges granted to the individual, including being able to legally drink alcohol and enter the floor of all casinos.
In the United States, turning 21 delivers with it several privileges. You are legally able to purchase and drink alcohol and are officially considered an adult.
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Aside from the 21st birthday, the most popular birthday for adults to celebrate is their 50th. It’s the half point of a century, which conveys far greater importance than saying you’ve been alive for 40% of a century.
Another reason the 50th birthday is widely celebrated is because the person is at a point in their life that is well-suited to festivities. In particular, someone turning 50 is more likely to:
- Be in good health
- Be experienced enough to reflect upon their accomplishments so far
- Have children who are old enough to not need constant tending
- Have parents who are young enough to not need constant tending
Dawn was happy to turn 50. She kept this birthday banner and stand up as a kitchen island centerpiece for her entire birthday month!
Great birthday ideas for someone turning 50 include a party, a trip or birthday getaway or even a group gift.
The 50th birthday is seen to be “golden” and adding black conveys a sense of elegance. You can’t go wrong with party decorations in black and gold, whether you’re looking to celebrate in a ballroom or at an intimate dinner with family and friends.
Milestone Birthday Meaning
The ancient Romans are to thank for the very first milestones.
As part of building the first system of roadways, they wanted to standardize and communicate the distance traveled between two points. They erected stone obelisks on the side of the roads every mile and called them “millestones”, because 1,000 paces equaled one mile and “mille” means 1,000 in Latin.
Roman milestone XXIX on Via Romana XVIII
Photo credit: Julio Reis
Lest you think this a piece of history better left to the past, the next time you’re driving along a highway in the US, check the side of the road. You’ll find milestones, more commonly called mileposts, every mile, though today they're nearly always made of metal.
Over time, the word milestone morphed from distance traveled to the passage of time or achievement of an important event. Nowadays, graduating from high school, getting married and buying your first home are considered milestones.
Why Do We Celebrate Milestone Birthdays?
The funny thing about milestone birthdays is they are technically no different than any other birthday. They occur exactly 365 days after your previous birthday and you become one year older.
From a practical standpoint though, milestone birthdays, from the ages of 30 upwards, only come along once every 10 years. Perhaps that’s why we refer these as “big” birthdays, as in, “Sooooo, when do you hit the big 3-0?”
Do milestone birthdays reflect the prior decade coming to a close or do they represent the welcoming of a new decade? Likely both!
7 Top Reasons to Celebrate Milestone Birthdays
Personally, I'm a fan of ALL birthdays, not just the ones that end in zero.
But there are no fewer than seven great reasons to commemorate milestone birthdays above all others, including:
- They represent a new beginning and time for reflection
- People understand these are “big” birthdays
- We remember our own milestone birthdays above others
- They honor aging with celebration
- They show we care and set a positive example for our kids
- Party goods and greeting cards reflect their importance
- Plenty of birthday slogans for turning 21, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80, 90
Keep reading as each idea is discussed below!
Turning 50 is much easier when surrounded by good friends---just ask Marci!
Milestone Birthdays Represent a New Beginning and a Time for Reflection
Ever stopped to think about the tradition of blowing out birthday candles?
Inevitably, someone will say, “Make a wish!”
It turns out that this tradition and its ability to improve our lives is grounded in science.
Researchers at The Wharton School studied the phenomenon of New Year’s resolutions. As many of us can attest, the new year is a time for setting goals, losing weight and exercising more.
The team found that “temporal landmarks” (basically, the imaginary lines we draw in our minds to delineate the passage of time, such as the start of a new week, month or year) can be very motivational because they provide an opportunity for reflection and encourage people to look at their lives overall.
Applying this to birthdays, the 48-year old version of you may not have exercised, but your 49th birthday might just be the motivation you need to start running every week.
Who knows? As you approach your 50th birthday you may realize that this is the decade you compete in half marathons.
People Understand Milestone Birthdays are “Big” Birthdays
Collectively, we understand that milestone birthdays are most important.
We make greater efforts for those birthdays, from cards to gifts to celebrations and trips.
If you miss a 46th birthday party, you can make a promise to attend the 47th one.
Miss a 50th birthday party?
You have to wait another decade until the person has another “significant” birthday!
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Anecdotally, I’ve seen much higher RSVPs for milestone birthday parties than non-milestone birthdays and the replies usually note the person’s age, “I'd love to celebrate Peggy's 80th birthday with her!”
This lovely lady is Peggy. Though it's hard to believe, she really was turning 80!
Casey unpacked an entire birthday party in a box for her mom, including this cake stand!
We Are Most Likely to Remember Our Own Milestone Birthdays
Milestone birthdays are very often the ones we remember the best.
Ask someone how they celebrated their 21st birthday and you’ll likely get a story. Inquire about how they celebrated turning 20 or 22 and a blank stare is far more common.
The reason turning 21, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70… are events we’re more easily able to recall is likely two-fold according to authors Chip and Dan Heath.
In their book, The Power of Moments, they discuss the characteristics of things we remember most.
They’ve found we are more likely to remember moments or events that occur during times of transition (like leaving your 30’s as you enter 40). We also tend to prioritize “peak” events in our memory bank.
Milestone Birthdays Honor Aging with Celebration
In a culture that prizes youth, aging is often marked by the loss of things we value (smooth, firm skin; eyes that can see tiny print) and the onset of unwelcome conditions (grey hair, aching joints).
Milestone birthdays are one of the few times when we can celebrate aging.
Events like a birthday party give guests a chance to toast the guest of honor and reminisce about shared stories.
Karl is still going strong at 90. May we all enjoy great health into our golden years!
Remembering Milestone Birthdays Shows We Care and Set a Good Example for the Kids
Giving gifts or celebrating with parties and gatherings are a fun, and admittedly much easier way of saying,
“I’m really glad you’re alive. I’m happy you’re been in my life for another year.”
As most kids view their own birthdays as happy events to look forward to, milestone birthday celebrations of the adults in their lives sets a positive example.
Party Goods and Greeting Cards Reflect the Importance of Milestone Birthdays
You can tell a lot about which birthdays are most important just by checking out greeting cards, invitations and party goods.
Milestone birthdays usually have several options with the person’s age emblazoned on the front of the card or invitation—“Happy 40th Birthday!” or “As You Turn 50…” Meanwhile, non-milestone birthdays have to make do with “for any age” cards.
Similarly, party goods for a 60th birthday are plentiful, while you’d be hard-pressed to find napkins, let alone decorations, for a 59th birthday or a 61st birthday.
(Milestone party goods and greeting cards have many options for 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th and 90th birthdays. The ages used above were to show examples.)
Milestone Birthday Slogans Abound
Milestone birthdays are the ones that make it into pop culture and sometimes even on party decorations.
From “50 is the new 40” to “Life begins at 50”, there are a wide range of popular phrases and slogans, including:
- “Flirty thirty!”
- “Lordy, lordy! Look who’s 40!”
- “50 and fabulous” and “Fifty is nifty”
- “Sixty and sassy”
- “Seventy and sensational”
- “Eighty and awesome”
Note that these slogans also work well for the theme of a birthday party!
More Milestone Birthdays
Whether you are celebrating you're 30th birthday or 90th birthday, the old saying is most definitely true: aging is MUCH better than the alternative!
Now you know about milestones...but what about birthstones? Please check out this blog post to learn more.